Tag Relationships
Miscellany – dVerse Meeting the Bar
– Miscellany –
You can choose your friends
but not your family, so they say.
This thought comforts those who have shallow roots
or roots that are tortuous, jagged and sharp.
But sometimes, you don’t get to choose the friend –
he or she selects you in a way that surprises,
and sometimes hurts.
You don’t have a choice, it’s not always warm and cosy,
not always ideal.
But life isn’t like that – tidily arranged
with signs that point you in the direction best-suited.
So grab hold of your friend, the one who has elbowed
his or her way into your life.
And never let go.
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This week, we write about friendship, in honour of a poet who left us too soon, Dave King.
I didn’t have the joy of ‘meeting’ him unfortunately, but his poems and blog are there for us to visit, which I certainly will. You can read and discover many more thoughts on friendship right here.
Discordance – dVerse Open Link Week 116
Here’s my latest entry into the dVerse Open Link – why not take a look at everyone else’s wonderful responses?
This piece is about the wrong time, the wrong place, about how, in a typically English fashion, we sometimes hide behind our walls, offer up excuses for fear of being hurt, or revealing our true selves.
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– Discordance –
If I was in another place
inside my head, if there was space
and I could clear away the noise
that leaves me raw and turns me cold –
If I was in another place,
and could connect, smile at your face
that holds those eyes of perfect poise
I would smile and risk my soul –
If I was in another place
where I could turn back and retrace
the path that left an empty shell
I would reach out, take your hand –
But I am in this darkened place
which won’t allow a moment’s grace,
to open up my heart and tell
you my life story, understand
that this is not my chosen place,
our cards are mismatched in this case
please walk on by, return again
for now just let me be your friend


